Bondage is liberating!
Shibari is not only liberating, it is also deeply relaxing, exciting, healing and transformative. I practice shibari from my experience and training in tantra. Tantra is about equality, safety and letting go of purpose. This allows you to completely let go of control dn surrender to the experience. In a shibari session with me, connection, surrender, dominance, pain, sexual arousal and aesthetics come together in a unique mix every time. I tailor that mix to the one I am tying the knot with. Always and only with full and explicit consent. I offer different types of private sessions for both women and men. I also give workshops and private lessons.
"I feel my body taking over and I am finally free of my stubborn head. So nice! It's flowing; tears and life energy."
What is your desire?
Klick on the picture below for more pictures of an outdoor session.
Model: Brechtje Anna (www.werkplaatsvoorgeluk.nl) Music: Bensound.com en Airtone
"With each command whispered in my ear, each tight knot on my skin, I feel myself becoming calmer."
— Eef, april 2023
"The impact and dominance, the sizzling touches on my neck and neck, the invitation to surrender and pleasure deep in my throat."
— Ymke, maart 2023
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Trust
Only when you feel safe can you let go and fully surrender to the experience. So a session always begins with a conversation. In that conversation we take the time to get acquainted and tune in. What do you long for, what are your limits. A session is all about you and the experience you want to have.
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Presence
The session is all about full attention to you, that is my mission. My attention is with you and not with the rope. Shibari can look beautiful, but that is secondary to the experience you have. I observe and read your reactions and respond accordingly. With rope I give you the experience you seek, healing, liberating, exciting.
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Surrender
You long to let go of all control for a while. Completely out of your mind and into your body. The very restriction the rope imposes on you allows you to surrender completely to the experience. The effect of the touch of the rope, soft or very firm, is magical. Total relaxation that feels like floating.
"Shibari is a fine way to get in touch with surrender, letting go, feeling trust. You can't do anything else. Sinking slowly until you get to deeper layers. To rest, total relaxation."
— Saskia —